November 30, 2011

  • What matters most to you about the opposite sex? Looks, personality, etc? Why?


    That really depends on what I'm looking for from them.

    I have never been a person who looks for Mrs. Right Now. I sometimes feel like I lost out on some good times by never having that phase.

    Based on my experience, I would say that what matters the most about a woman is where her heart is.

    I can deal with a woman who isn't a perfect 10. In fact, I'd rather deal with one who isn't :P . I wouldn't ever feel within my league otherwise and I'd always have to keep a billy club handy for all the covetous gents around.

    I can deal with a woman who doesn't quite know what to do with her life. In fact, I could be the most useful to someone in that condition. I am a world-class support system.

    The best part of any relationship is when you connect to that person completely and it becomes something shared.. almost like having family. Things like physical and mental attraction thrive in that kind of relationship if you really try.

    I think I'd just like not to be so expendable to someone, because that's been the majority of my relationship experience. It's the reason I declared a state of war to initiated sweeping personal changes for myself. It's the reason I have a few entrenched reservations about women and relationships.

    I need to be re-educated and I know it. It would take a woman with a good heart a fair bit of patience to do that.

    It's the last thing on my mind to look for though. One will find me, when it's time.

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